Of course.

But what does that mean?

Often, despite our best intentions, the ways we define “healthy men” become prescriptions for identities that don’t serve anyone, least of all men.

The truth is more complex and situational. There’s no easy answer. 

In my weekly essays, I question rose-tinted progressivism. I refuse conservative dogma. 

I raise a skeptical eyebrow at “masculine/feminine polarity” and scoff when someone says “gender is a social construct.”

My essays and podcast are an honest exploration of how men (and as a result, women) can find more satisfaction, meaning, skillfulness, love, and truth in their relationships and overall lives.

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